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Family Reunification Visa - Your stories

These are shared experiences by people who recently went through a Family Reunification Visa application process. You can share yours with us via an easy-to-fill-in form on this page.

  • An FB member shared a more detailed experience. You can read it here.
  • Another member, Tom, also shared his experience with us, you can read about it here

Shared by Megan in May 2025

When did you apply for your FRV 2025-01-27
How many days did you wait before it was approved 116
Nationality of the person applying for a FRV South African passport
The nationality of your spouse whom you will be joining in Germany German passport
Marital Status at the time of application Married
Children I am a parent to a German child (see next question)
Parent to a German Child I am a parent to a German child and applied for the “parent to a minor German child” visa – as it is less restrictive and easier to obtain
Type of Visa your spouse applied for in Germany German passport holder
Did you need an Unabridged marriage certificate Yes
Did you need to have your marriage certificate apostilled Yes
Proof of language skills Language requirement was waived
Are you allowed to work once you are in Germany Yes
Tips you would like to share Expect a long wait, even up to 90 days or more. My visa took 116 days from application to approval. It’s hard, but prepare for the full timeline from the beginning, and don’t assume anything is wrong just because you haven’t heard back. Keep digital and paper copies of all your documents. This includes your passport, marriage certificate, rental agreement, birth certificates of your children, and anything else you submitted. Our rental agreement wasn’t listed as a required document, but the embassy still asked for it during the application process. Having everything on hand makes it easier to respond quickly if they request something unexpectedly.

Communication with the Ausländerbehörde can be extremely difficult. In our case, we tried calling every day for weeks and never got an answer. We also emailed the contact address listed on their official website, but never received a reply. Eventually, I came across an obscure Facebook post that listed a different departmental email address, and when I wrote to that one, I finally got a response. All my communication was in German. I can’t say for sure if that made the difference, but the replies I received were friendly and helpful. So if you’re able to, writing in German and finding the correct department email might improve your chances of getting a reply.

Join support groups. Being part of a group like South Africans in Germany helped me stay grounded. I learned from others’ timelines, what to expect, and how to stay patient. It’s a great place to vent and feel less alone.

Book your flight conservatively. I booked for 26 June, and my visa was approved just a month before departure. That timing was tight but manageable. If you can, give yourself buffer time.

Stay emotionally prepared. The process can be draining, especially when your children or spouse are involved. Find little ways to ground yourself.
Shared by Candace February 2025
When did you apply for your FRV 2024-12-20
How many days did you wait before it was approved 45
Nationality of the person applying for a FRV South African passport
The nationality of your spouse, whom you will be joining in Germany Dual SA and DE
Marital Status at the time of application Married
Children No children involved
Parent to a German Child NA
Type of Visa your spouse applied for in Germany German passport holder
Did you need an Unabridged marriage certificate Yes
Did you need to have your marriage certificate apostilled Yes
Proof of language skills A minimum of an A1 level was required
Are you allowed to work once you are in Germany Yes

Shared by Telo in October 2024

When did you apply for your FRV

 2024-09-25

How many days did you wait before it was approved

 12

Nationality of the person applying for a FRV

 South African passport

The nationality of your spouse whom you will be joining in Germany

 German passport

Marital Status at the time of application

 Married

Children

 No children involved

Parent to a German Child

 NA

Type of Visa your spouse applied for in Germany

 

Did you need an Unabridged marriage certificate

 We got married in Germany so it was not needed

Did you need to have your marriage certificate apostilled

 Yes

Proof of language skills

 A minimum of A1 level was required

Are you allowed to work once you are in Germany

 Yes

Tips you would like to share

 Start preparing for the A1 Exam as soon as you are able too. We got married in Europe but still had our marriage certificate apostilled. Gather all documents and make 2 files (1 Copy each per file) the FRV checklist is straightforward forward and if your partner is German you will be exempt from the Visa Fee. I wasn’t given the option to keep my passport. I had the Verpflictungserklärung attached, my spouse was asked to send 2 documents only. All documents were in English no translation required.

Shared by Cheryl on 03 May 2024

When did you apply for your FRV

 2023-08-23

How many days did you wait before it was approved

 82

Nationality of the person applying for a FRV

 South African passport

The nationality of your spouse whom you will be joining in Germany

 German passport

Marital Status at the time of application

 Engaged

Children

 No children involved

Parent to a German Child

 NA

Type of Visa your spouse applied for in Germany

 German passport holder

Did you need an Unabridged marriage certificate

 We got married in Germany so it was not needed

Did you need to have your marriage certificate apostilled

 We got married in Germany so it was not needed

Proof of language skills

 A minimum of A1 level was required

Are you allowed to work once you are in Germany

 Yes

Tips you would like to share

 It took 2 and a half years to get my Visa. These are the documents we needed to apply to get married in Germany

  • Passport copies (I had these taken to a Notarised Attorney).
  • Unabridged Birth Certificate (needed to be Apostilled and translated).
  • Letter of Non-Impediment – I had to wait a year to get this from Home Affairs so get this as soon as you can (Apostilled and translated).
  •  “Versicherung zum Familienstand ( the only place I could get this was from the German Embassy(Eidesstattliche Versicherung) which ended up working in my favour as they helped me when they gave us trouble in Germany).

Finally, on the 28th of July 2023, we were given permission to get married in Germany. We had time till the 05th of January 2024 to get married (I Got married on the 4th of January as I still had to apply for my Visa within this time).
When I applied for my FRV I also gave my Verpflichtungserklarung which my Fiance needed to get in Germany. Hope this helps.

 

Shared by Lesego on 06 March 2024
When did you apply for your FRV  2024-02-06
How many days did you wait before it was approved  14
Nationality of the person applying for a FRV  South African passport
The nationality of your spouse whom you will be joining in Germany  German passport
Marital Status at the time of application  In a relationship
Children  I am a parent to a German child (see next question)
Parent to a German Child  I am a parent to a German child and applied for the “parent to a minor German child” visa – as it is less restrictive and easier to obtain
Type of Visa your spouse applied for in Germany  German passport holder
Did you need an Unabridged marriage certificate  No
Did you need to have your marriage certificate apostilled  No
Proof of language skills  Language requirement was waived
Are you allowed to work once you are in Germany  Yes
Tips you would like to share  i had initially applied for a Schengen visa for myself and baby. Embassy came back to say baby cannot be issued visa they need to apply for German passport. they further advised me to apply for national visa instead. email the embassy and plead your case, i find them understanding and helpful. i could apply for my national visa at the same time as baby’s passport. visa came relatively quick while we had to wait a while for baby’s passport. tip email the relevant channels. Tip email the relevant channels.

Shared by Julia on 16 February 2024

When did you apply for your FRV

 2024-01-24

How many days did you wait before it was approved

 19

Nationality of the person applying for a FRV

 South African passport

The nationality of your spouse whom you will be joining in Germany

 German passport

Marital Status at the time of application

 Married

Children

 No children involved

Parent to a German Child

 NA

Type of Visa your spouse applied for in Germany

 German passport holder

Did you need an Unabridged marriage certificate

 Yes

Did you need to have your marriage certificate apostilled

 Yes

Proof of language skills

 A minimum of A1 level was required

Are you allowed to work once you are in Germany

 Yes

Shared by Angelica on 15 February 2024

When did you apply for your FRV

 2024-01-09

How many days did you wait before it was approved

 29

Nationality of the person applying for a FRV

 South African passport

The nationality of your spouse whom you will be joining in Germany

 South African passport

Marital Status at the time of application

 Married

Children

 No children involved

Parent to a German Child

 NA

Type of Visa your spouse applied for in Germany

 Bluecard (Highly skilled)

Did you need an Unabridged marriage certificate

 Yes

Did you need to have your marriage certificate apostilled

 Yes

Proof of language skills

 Language requirement was waived

Are you allowed to work once you are in Germany

 Yes

Tips you would like to share

 My application was approved with High Court Apostile in Cape Town office. I emailed them before to ask if High Court apostile is ok and they said yes. Follow up with local Ausländerbehörde, I did after 2 weeks they said application wasn’t there yet, so I followed up with embassy again then after 2 weeks it was approved.

Shared by Tom on 03 December 2023, who also sent us detailed info that we added to this page

When did you apply for your FRV

 2023-10-31

How many days did you wait before it was approved

 23

Nationality of the person applying for a FRV

 South African passport

The nationality of your spouse whom you will be joining in Germany

 German passport

Marital Status at the time of application

 Married

Children

 No children involved

Parent to a German Child

 NA

Type of Visa your spouse applied for in Germany

 German passport holder

Did you need an Unabridged marriage certificate

 Yes

Did you need to have your marriage certificate apostilled

 Yes

Proof of language skills

 A minimum of A1 level was required

Are you allowed to work once you are in Germany

 Yes

Tips you would like to share

 We decided to emigrate last November. Between then and now we spent the time collecting the documents, resigning from jobs, making arrangements overseas etc.

  

Shared by Daichan on 17 November 2023

Name

 Daichan

When did you apply for your FRV

 2023-08-02

How many days did you wait before it was approved

 78

Nationality of the person applying for a FRV

 South African passport

The nationality of your spouse whom you will be joining in Germany

 German passport

Marital Status at the time of application

 Engaged

Children

 No children involved

Parent to a German Child

 NA

Type of Visa your spouse applied for in Germany

 

Did you need an Unabridged marriage certificate

 We got married in Germany so it was not needed

Did you need to have your marriage certificate apostilled

 We got married in Germany so it was not needed

Proof of language skills

 A minimum of A1 level was required

Are you allowed to work once you are in Germany

 Yes

Tips you would like to share

 Start with the language, home affairs to collect all documents Especially if you intend to marry in Germany.

Shared by Pride on 15 November 2023

When did you apply for your FRV

 2023-10-04

How many days did you wait before it was approved

 10

Nationality of the person applying for a FRV

 South African passport

The nationality of your spouse whom you will be joining in Germany

 South African passport

Marital Status at the time of application

 Married

Children

 No children involved

Parent to a German Child

 

Type of Visa your spouse applied for in Germany

 Work Visa (not Bluecard)

Did you need an Unabridged marriage certificate

 Yes

Did you need to have your marriage certificate apostilled

 Yes

Proof of language skills

 Language requirement was waived

Are you allowed to work once you are in Germany

 Yes

Tips you would like to share

 We applied for the visa in Germany, and then the spouse in Germany received an email from the Welcome Center asking them to confirm a few details including proof of accommodation, income, medical and a data protection form, the following day. There were some delays in getting some documents such as a nomore than 1 month proof of employment from the employer of the spouse in Germany, as companies do not necessarily respond instantly, so it took about 5 days to get the letter from the company employer. After that, documents were sent to the Welcome Center in Germany and then after 4 days we received an email that our application had been accepted in Germany and we should book a flight and buy travel insurance and send it to the Embassy in SA. After that, our visa was issued. It was quite a smooth journey and we didn’t need any language since the spouse abroad was on a research visa. The spouse coming to Germany is also allowed to work any type of job.

Shared by Julia on 05 October 2023

When did you apply for your FRV

 2023-08-22

How many days did you wait before it was approved

 38

Nationality of the person applying for a FRV

 South African passport

The nationality of your spouse whom you will be joining in Germany

 German passport

Marital Status at the time of application

 Engaged

Children

 No children involved

Parent to a German Child

 NA

Type of Visa your spouse applied for in Germany

 German passport holder

Did you need an Unabridged marriage certificate

 We got married in Germany so it was not needed

Did you need to have your marriage certificate apostilled

 We got married in Germany so it was not needed

Proof of language skills

 A minimum of A1 level was required

Are you allowed to work once you are in Germany

 Yes

Tips you would like to share

 From getting engaged to getting the visa it tools us about 6 months. The longest process was getting the unabridged birth certificate and letter of no impediment, both with apostille. Agencies can get the documents faster, but they said they don’t have an influence on the time the apostille will take. The visa application itself went rather smoothly since we had all the documents required. The bottleneck here always seems to be the alien office in your town in Germany! After not hearing anything for 5 weeks we called the alien office at our town in Germany and only a few days later it was approved! So if you apply for this visa keep in mind to try calling the alien office in the town your moving to in Germany, hopefully they will then start processing it.

Shared by Matthew on 21 August 2023
When did you apply for your FRV  2023-05-03
How many days did you wait before it was approved  110
Nationality of the person applying for a FRV  South African passport
The nationality of your spouse whom you will be joining in Germany She has a Turkish passport with EU Blue Card residency in Germany
Marital Status at the time of application  Married
Children  No children involved
Parent to a German Child  NA
Type of Visa your spouse applied for in Germany  Bluecard (Highly skilled)
Did you need an Unabridged marriage certificate  We got married in Germany so it was not needed
Did you need to have your marriage certificate apostilled  We got married in Germany so it was not needed
Proof of language skills  Language requirement was waived
Are you allowed to work once you are in Germany  Yes
Tips you would like to share  We had an agency helping us and they followed up with the visa authorities in Germany. We think that the visa application may have been on hold due to additional documents that were required. We were contacted two weeks earlier asking for payslips of my wife and update rental agreement from the landlord. Two weeks after that the visa was issued.

Shared by Liezl on 15 May 2023

When did you apply for your FRV 2022-09-29
How many days did you wait before it was approved 184
Nationality of the person applying for a FRV South African passport
The nationality of your spouse whom you will be joining in Germany Dual SA and DE
Marital Status at the time of application Married
Children No children involved
Parent to a German Child NA
Type of Visa your spouse applied for in Germany 
Did you need an Unabridged marriage certificate Yes
Did you need to have your marriage certificate apostilled Yes
Proof of language skills A minimum of A1 level was required
Are you allowed to work once you are in Germany Yes
Tips you would like to share Definitely study well for the A1 exam. It’s costly and can cost you time waiting for the next exam date. Appostile all your unabridged documents.
I also translated them into German and have found that to be helpful once converting my drivers.
Our application was delayed because the Ausländerbehörde was extremely busy in our small town. Also our 10 year marriage wasn’t registered in Germany and was mistaken for it happening in Germany and not in SA, causing confusion..
We got a family member who speaks German to communicate to the manager at the Ausländerbehörde who reluctantly helped.
Delay could’ve been avoided if they bothered to reach out to us and ask. All in all be prepared to wait more than the stated 3 months.
Shared by Chantell on 26 April 2023
When did you apply for your FRV  2023-03-08
How many days did you wait before it was approved  35
Nationality of the person applying for a FRV  South African passport
The nationality of your spouse whom you will be joining in Germany  South African passport
Marital Status at the time of application  Married
Children  No children involved
Parent to a German Child  NA
Type of Visa your spouse applied for in Germany  Work Visa (not Bluecard)
Did you need an Unabridged marriage certificate  Yes
Did you need to have your marriage certificate apostilled  Yes
Proof of language skills  A minimum of A1 level was required
Are you allowed to work once you are in Germany  No
Tips you would like to share  Start with German A1 as soon as you can as this can take time with finding a date for your test. This was the thing that hold us back the longest. I went through Goethe Institute in Johannesburg and they were great. I received the results of my test within a week but I had to wait for two months to write because of the date for tests they have available. Start with the Apostille of Unabridged Marriage Certificates 6 months prior if you can and Expedite through companies given on the site. It’s affordable for the time that they get the certificates back to you. Once you make your appointment make sure you have all your documents otherwise the process will be delayed. Good Luck!

Shared by Mariska in March 2023

When did you apply for your FRV

 2023-01-11

How many days did you wait before it was approved

 62

Nationality of the person applying for a FRV

 South African passport

The nationality of your spouse whom you will be joining in Germany

 German passport

Marital Status at the time of application

 Married

Children

 No children involved

Parent to a German Child

 NA

Type of Visa your spouse have for Germany

 German passport holder

Did you need an Unabridged marriage certificate

 Yes

Did you need to have your marriage certificate apostilled

 Yes

Proof of language skills

 Language requirement was waived

Are you allowed to work once you are in Germany

 Yes

Tips you would like to share

 The wait is emotionally and mentally draining. Being away from your spouse is not easy. Keep in mind – The Embassy sends your application to the authorities at the Ausländerbehörde in the area you’re emigrating to. If/when you follow up, make sure it’s to the correct Ausländerbehörde. My advice is to give it a few weeks before following up. Even though we never got feedback from the Ausländerbehörde, it’s worth a try. The Embassy can’t give you information regarding the process, but we still sent them emails and their response time was quite good. As difficult as it is, you’ve got to have patience and a little bit of faith. (; Good luck x

Shared by Ryan in March 2023

When did you apply for your FRV 2023-02-21
How many days did you wait before it was approved 28
Nationality of the person applying for a FRV South African passport
The nationality of your spouse whom you will be joining in Germany German passport
Marital Status at the time of application Engaged
Children No children involved
Parent to a German Child NA
Type of Visa your spouse have for Germany German passport holder
Did you need an Unabridged marriage certificate No
Did you need to have your marriage certificate apostilled No
Proof of language skills A minimum of A1 level was required
Are you allowed to work once you are in Germany Yes
Tips you would like to share It took 10 days to receive an email from the Aliens Office, and other couple weeks to hear back from the Consulate in Cape Town. I thing home affairs here also gets a bad rep and DIRCO for the apostille. I read so many horror stories but in reality, it was a breeze. On the German end, it may have taken quicker because we are registered to marry at a smaller quieter Rathaus in the country side.
  

Shared by Jemma in February 2023

When did you apply for your FRV 2023-01-04
How many days did you wait before it was approved 42
Nationality of the person applying for a FRV South African passport
The nationality of your spouse whom you will be joining in Germany South African passport
Marital Status at the time of application Married
Children Our children have only South African passports
Parent to a German Child 
Type of Visa your spouse have for Germany Work Visa (not Bluecard)
Did you need an Unabridged marriage certificate Yes
Did you need to have your marriage certificate apostilled Yes
Proof of language skills Language requirement was waived
Are you allowed to work once you are in Germany Yes
Tips you would like to share The wait is hard and it takes multiple emails to the Ausländerbehörde to get an answer sometimes. My experience is if they have no update then they simply won’t respond.
  

Shared by Retha in December 2022

When did you apply for your FRV 2022-11-11
How many days did you wait before it was approved 38
Nationality of the person applying for a FRV South African passport
The nationality of your spouse whom you will be joining in Germany Dual SA and DE
Marital Status at the time of application Married
Children No children involved
Parent to a German Child NA
Type of Visa your spouse have for Germany German passport holder
Did you need an Unabridged marriage certificate Yes
Did you need to have your marriage certificate apostilled Yes
Proof of language skills The language requirement was waived
Are you allowed to work once you are in Germany Yes
Tips you would like to share After your appointment at the embassy, it takes the application 3-4 weeks to reach the ausländerbehörde in Germany. We started following up with them after 3 weeks had passed. The language certificate requirement was waived as I am colloquially fluent in German (B2ish level) so I had my entire visa interview in German at the embassy. I saw on international groups that the rule of thumb for approaching the language requirement this way is, you should be a letter grade higher than required. So if you need A1, you should speak at least B1 level German.

Shared by Rosa in December 2022

When did you apply for your FRV

 2022-11-18

How many days did you wait before it was approved

 14

Nationality of the person applying for a FRV

 South African passport

The nationality of your spouse whom you will be joining in Germany

 EU passport (not German)

Marital Status at the time of application

 In a relationship

Children

 Our children have only South African passports

Parent to a German Child

 NA

Type of Visa your spouse have for Germany

 Work Visa (not Bluecard)

Did you need an Unabridged marriage certificate

 No

Did you need to have your marriage certificate apostilled

 Yes

Proof of language skills

 The language requirement was waived

Are you allowed to work once you are in Germany

 Yes

Tips you would like to share

 

Shared by Chrisni in November 2022

When did you apply for your FRV

 2022-08-10

How many days did you wait before it was approved

 104

Nationality of the person applying for a FRV

 South African passport

The nationality of your spouse whom you will be joining in Germany

 Dual SA and DE

Marital Status at the time of application

 Married

Children

 I am a parent to a German child (see next question)

Parent to a German Child

 I am a parent to a German child and applied for the “parent to a minor German child” visa – as it is less restrictive and easier to obtain

Type of Visa your spouse have for Germany

 German passport holder

Did you need an Unabridged marriage certificate

 Yes

Did you need to have your marriage certificate apostilled

 Yes

Proof of language skills

 Language requirement was waived

Are you allowed to work once you are in Germany

 Yes

Tips you would like to share

 It’s worth finding out which municipality your place of residence is in, and emailing the Ausländbehorde there if things seem to take a while. I would likely still be waiting for my visa if I didn’t mail them, as my application fell through the cracks due to a staff change.

Shared by Magdelie  in November 2022

When did you apply for your FRV

 2022-02-16

How many days did you wait before it was approved

 180

Nationality of the person applying for a FRV

 South African passport

The nationality of your spouse whom you will be joining in Germany

 South African passport

Marital Status at the time of application

 Married

Children

 No children involved

Parent to a German Child

 NA

Type of Visa your spouse has for Germany

 Work Visa (not Bluecard)

Did you need an Unabridged marriage certificate

 Yes

Did you need to have your marriage certificate apostilled

 Yes

Proof of language skills

 A minimum of A1 level was required

Are you allowed to work once you are in Germany

 Yes

Tips you would like to share

 As a lot of people moving to Germany can attest, permanent housing is not always very quickly found. In the event that you are moving to a smaller town, ensure that there are not multiple Auslanderbehörde for different regions of the town. This is what caused the delay for my visa, since my husband’s different AirBnB’s fell under 2 different ABH despite the fact that the 2 areas were part of the main city. This resulted in my application being ping-ponged between 2 ABH and the Embassy in SA, which delayed the entire process to a total of 6 months.

Shared by Eric on 03 October 2022

When did you apply for your FRV 2022-08-03
How many days did you wait before it was approved54
Nationality of the person applying for a FRV South African passport
The nationality of your spouse whom you will be joining in Germany South African passport
Marital Status at the time of application Married
Children I am a parent to a German child (see next question)
Parent to a German Child I am a parent to a German child and applied for the “parent to a minor German child” visa – as it is less restrictive and easier to obtain
Type of Visa your spouse have for Germany German passport holder
Did you need an Unabridged marriage certificate Yes
Did you need to have your marriage certificate apostilled Yes
Proof of language skills Language requirement was waived
Are you allowed to work once you are in Germany Yes
Tips you would like to share To start, if your child does not yet have a German passport and you are considering emigrating in future, get it done ASAP. It took us 5 months to get the name declaration done and another 6 weeks for the passport. This lead to me applying for the visa later than expected and we got seperated. They did accept just the name declaration at the appointment as proof of German citizenship, but when it ended up in Germany a few weeks later they required copy of passport as well as our marriage certificate for some reason even though it was reunification to child. In both cases, the ND & Passport application as well as for the visa, had family following up on the German side. At time of application my wife and daughter were still in SA so I put my father-in-law as my sponsor with their address as that’s where we’d be staying while we get things in order.
Shared by Samuel 28 July 2022
When did you apply for your FRV  2022-05-11
How many days did you wait before it was approved 43
Nationality of the person applying for a FRV  South African passport
The nationality of your spouse whom you will be joining in Germany  German passport
Marital Status at the time of application  Married
Children  No children involved
Parent to a German Child  NA
Type of Visa your spouse have for Germany  German passport holder
Did you need to have your marriage certificate apostilled  Yes
Proof of language skills  A minimum of A1 level was required
Are you allowed to work once you are in Germany  Yes
Tips you would like to share 1. Apply to a smaller district if possible. I was told that in the bigger cities, these applications can take many months! 2. After a month or so (they send your application to Germany in hardcopy, so give it time to arrive) try to find the person that is responsible for your application at your local municipality and call and email them frequently (in German helps – I got my wife and mother-in-law to phone). It looks like once they become aware of the application they process it quite quickly.

Shared by Tasneem 29 July 2022

When did you apply for your FRV  2021-09-14
How many days did you wait before it was approved 36
Nationality of the person applying for a FRV  South African passport
The nationality of your spouse whom you will be joining in Germany  Dual SA and DE
Marital Status at the time of application  Married
Children  I am a parent to a German child (see next question)
Parent to a German Child  I am a parent to a German child and applied for the “parent to a minor German child” visa – as it is less restrictive and easier to obtain
Type of Visa your spouse have for Germany  German passport holder
Did you need to have your marriage certificate apostilled  Yes
Proof of language skills  Language requirement was waived
Are you allowed to work once you are in Germany  Yes
Shared by Vaughn 28 July 2022  
When did you apply for your FRV  2019-01-07
How many days did you wait before it was approved 14
Nationality of the person applying for a FRV  South African passport
The nationality of your spouse whom you will be joining in Germany  Dual SA and DE
Marital Status at the time of application  Married
Children I am a parent to a German child (see next question)
Parent to a German Child  I am a parent to a German child but applied for a spousal visa
Type of Visa your spouse have for Germany  German passport holder
Did you need to have your marriage certificate apostilled  No
Proof of language skills  Language requirement was waived
Are you allowed to work once you are in Germany  Yes
Tips you would like to share  All certificates (marriage and birth) had to be unabridged but not apostilled. As I have a German child (dual SA, DE citizenship), the A1 language requirement was waived however I still did the Goethe A1 test and used it in my application. For proof of medical insurance, I obtained 3 months travel insurance and then went on a krankenkasse the first week in Germany. Book your appointment at the Auslanderbehörde as soon as possible once arriving in Germany and try to take someone fluent in German with you. You may have to do a mandatory integration course, it is hard to do as it is 3-4 hours daily for about a year, but it helps you integrate and gets you to B1.

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Family Reunification Visa Family reunification in Germany allows close family members to join their relatives living in Germany—whether those relatives are German citizens or third-country nationals with valid residence (Aufenthaltserlaubnis) or settlement permits (Niederlassungserlaubnis). Eligible family members include: Spouses or registered partners Minor children to foreign parent (unmarried) Parents of a minor German Child These rules focus on preserving the nuclear family. Other relatives, such as adult children, siblings, grandparents, or extended family, are not normally eligible, unless there are exceptional humanitarian or personal hardship circumstances that justify reunification. Immigration authorities evaluate such cases very strictly, and approvals are rare. Visa and Residence Permit: What You Need to Know To join a family member in Germany, you’ll need to go through a two-step process: First, apply for a national visa while still in South Africa. This visa allows you to enter Germany for the purpose of family reunification. After arrival, you must apply for a residence permit from the local immigration office (Ausländerbehörde) in Germany to legally remain long-term. Please note that the rules and requirements differ based on both your citizenship and the citizenship of the family member you are joining. As a general rule, the conditions vary depending on whether you are joining: A German national An EU citizen A third-country national (non-EU) Each category has its own conditions, documentation requirements, and processing times, so it’s essential to check the correct guidelines for your situation before beginning your application. 👉 Important Note:If you’re planning a short-term stay, such as visiting a relative or friend in Germany for a few weeks or months, this is not the right visa for you. For temporary visits, such as attending family events, holidays, or simply spending time with loved ones, a different visa category applies. Info on the web As the rules and requirements change regularly, please refer to the official websites for information on a family reunification visa. Bamf – Information for 3rd Country Nationals Berlin Welcome Centre Federal office for migration and refugees. Family Reunificationof third-country nationals in Germany – See page 39 for employment restrictions The Federal Government –  At a glance: Visa for the purpose of family reunification to foreigners Where to apply You need to submit your application at the German Embassy in South Africa, or at one of the German Consulates in South Africa. You cannot apply for a family reunification visa from inside Germany. The following types of Family reunification Visas are available Spouse Parent to a minor German child Child to a foreign parent Family members of non-German EU citizens Proof of knowledge of basic German To join your spouse in Germany, you must demonstrate at least basic proficiency in the German language (equivalent to Level A1 of the European Language Framework).For more information, you can find a flyer from BAMF (Bundesamt für Migration und Flüchtlinge) here We summarised the possible exceptions, but please always refer back to the official information from BAMF: You or your spouse are a citizen of a member state of the European Union or you have exercised your right of free movement as a German citizen. Your spouse is a citizen of Australia, Israel, Japan, Canada, the Republic of Korea, New Zealand, the United Kingdom, the United States of America, Andorra, Brazil, El Salvador, Honduras, Monaco, or San Marino. You have a university degree and can probably find work in Germany thanks to your language skills. Your spouse holds an EU Blue Card. Your spouse holds a residence permit as  a skilled worker (§ 18c (3) German Residence Act (AufenthG)). a researcher 2 (§ 18f AufenthG). a self­employed person 2 (§ 21 AufenthG). a person entitled to asylum (§ 25 (1) and § 26 (3) AufenthG) to whom you were already married in yourhome country before your partner moved to Germany. a person who has been granted refugee status or subsidiary protection (§ 25 (2) and § 26 (3) AufenthG) to whom you were already married in your home country before your partner moved to Germany. a long­term resident from another EU member state (§ 38a AufenthG). You do not wish to remain permanently in Germany. It is impossible or unreasonable to learn the language abroad, or this has proven unsuccessful despite your attempts. You are unable to prove basic knowledge of German on account of a physical, mental or psychological illness or disability. You are able to cite other circumstances that make it impossible for you to learn the language, circumstances that could constitute a case of hardship. Employment Joining a third-country national. According to BAMF documentation,  If you are joining your spouse who is a third-country national you are also entitled to take up work if you come to Germany for the purposes of family reunification.  Joining a German spouseAccording to BAMF documentation, family members coming to Germany to join their German spouses, for the purpose of family reunification are allowed to work in Germany. Medical For comprehensive guidance on your visa application, read our detailed tips regarding medical insurance coverage—an important requirement to ensure your application proceeds smoothly and meets all necessary criteria. Additional information and tips When a birth or marriage certificate is required, it must always be an unabridged copy The embassy only accepts Marriage certificates that were apostilled by DIRCO Unabridged birth certificates must also be apostilled by DIRCO We have companies listed that can assist in obtaining unabridged documentation, but remember they cannot speed up the process at DIRCO. You can find a list of these companies here When your spouse is already in Germany, it is sufficient to supply a copy of their “Anmeldung” you do not have to wait for a copy of their residence card to submit your application. As with all visa applications, make sure you supply all the documentation required on the Checklist Unless specifically asked for, documents that are in English does not need to be translated During your interview, ask if you can keep your passport with you, as the process can take a long time (months), and you will only get your passport back when the visa is issued. 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List of Long Stay Visas

Long Term visas are seen as visits longer than 90 days and will typically be for work or study visits. If your application is approved, you will receive a visa to enter Germany. Once you are in Germany you will need to apply for your residence permit at the local Ausländerbehörde as soon as possible. You will always apply for your first long-stay German Visa at the German Embassy in South Africa.This might also apply when you change your type of visa e.g from study to work. The German Embassy in South Africa has offices in Cape Town and Pretoria.From now on, you will have the opportunity to apply for the following types of visa online via the Consular Service Portal of the Federal Foreign Office. Appointments for national visas can be booked online (free of charge). Residents of the following countries/provinces must submit their visa application to the indicated mission: Online appointments Embassy Pretoria: Free State, Gauteng, Kwazulu-Natal, Limpopo, Mpumalanga, North-West, Lesotho, Swaziland Online appointments Consulate General Cape Town: Eastern Cape, Northern Cape, Western Cape. To sponsor someone’s visit for example your adult child who wants to study in Germany and does not qualify for the financial requirements, you need to apply for a Verpflichtungserklärung List of long term visas As rules and regulations can change on a regular basis, we provide the links to the German Embassy in South Africa. Where possible also links to additional information. We are not immigration consultants and can only refer you to the official pages. Blue Card (minimum salary and university degree). You can find additional information on Make it in Germany. You can also download this handy flyer about an EU Blue Card Employment Visa – for qualified professionals.  Subcategories are : Skilled worker holding a University degree IT specialist with professional experience Research stay Skilled worker with vocational training qualification – As a skilled worker with vocational training qualification, you can be issued a residence permit to engage in skilled employment that your qualification enables you to perform. Have a look at the current professions in demand. Please note that some university degrees from foreign universities are classified as vocational training qualifications in Germany. Work in case of partial recognition of qualification – If your vocational training has not been fully recognised by the competent German agency, you can apply for a visa to complete the necessary training in Germany and at the same time start to work. After completion and full recognition of your training, you can apply for permanent residence in Germany. Intra-corporate transfer (ICT). Flyer from BAMF.  Study Visa – General, Doctorate and German language studies. See also our page about studying German in Germany Au Pair Visa Jobseeker, vocational training or voluntary service visa Family reunification – Spouse – see also our page about this topic Family reunification  – Parent to a minor German child Family reunification – Child to a foreign parent (In case a foreign child intends to move to a foreign parent living permanently in Germany) Legal basis Residence Act Aufenthaltsverordnung AufenthV Federal Act on registration Visumhandbuch Resources on the web What type of visa do I need? – Make it in Germany Federal Foreign Office / Auswärtiges Amt Federal Office for Migration and Refugees / Bundesamt für Migration und Flugtlinge Act on the Residence, Economic Activity and Integration of Foreigners in the Federal Territor from the Bundesministerium der Justiz. Visa Regulations  Terminology Permanent Residence Permit Die Nierderlassungserlaubnis Residence Permit Der Aufenhalstitel Visa Das Visum Blue Card Die Blaue Karte Related content Facebook Twitter LinkedIn WhatsApp Email

Getting married

Getting Married Navigating the process of getting married in Germany can feel overwhelming, especially if you’re not a German citizen. On our Facebook page, we often receive questions about marriage in Germany, and two scenarios come up most frequently: A South African marrying a German citizen. Two unmarried South Africans want to marry before relocating to Germany (to simplify obtaining visas or residence permits). Please note that there might be situations where you are only able to join your spouse once they are settled in.  Getting married in Germany Many of our community members agree that it’s often easier to get married outside of Germany and then register the marriage at your local Rathaus. Popular Alternatives: South Africa: Familiar, straightforward, and recognized in Germany. Denmark: Renowned for its quick and simple marriage process, especially for international couples. If you’re planning to tie the knot, consider your options carefully to save time and avoid unnecessary stress. Getting Married in Denmark Getting married in Denmark as a foreigner is indeed a popular option due to its straightforward and relatively quick process compared to other European countries, including Germany. Denmark is known for having a simplified process for international couples. Here are the key steps and requirements: Basic Requirements: Valid Passports: Both partners must have valid passports. Proof of Marital Status: Documentation proving that both parties are legally single. This can include a certificate of no impediment, divorce decree, or death certificate if widowed. Proof of Residence: Depending on your nationality, you may need proof of residency or a visa for Denmark. However, most EU nationals and many non-EU nationals do not need a visa. Birth Certificates: Some municipalities may ask for birth certificates, so it’s good to have these documents on hand. Documents in English, German, or Danish: Any documents not in these languages may need to be officially translated. Application Process: Choose a Municipality: Popular choices include Copenhagen, Ærø, and Tønder, known for their efficiency and experience with foreign couples. Submit Documents: Couples must submit the required documents to the chosen Danish municipality. This can often be done online or via email. Approval: Once the documents are reviewed and approved, you’ll be given a wedding date. Wedding Ceremony: You can have either a civil ceremony at the town hall or a more elaborate ceremony if desired. Timeline and costs: Quick Process: The entire process can take just a few weeks from submitting documents to the ceremony itself. Cost: The fees vary by municipality but typically range between €200 and €300. (2024) If you have Facebook, watch a video on DW Stories about getting married in Denmark  On the page below, you’ll find experiences shared by our community about the journey of getting married in South Africa, Germany, or Denmark, and the transition to living in Germany Registering your Marriage in Germany If you got married outside of Germany, you’ll need to register the marriage in Germany for it to be officially recorded in the German system. However, this is only necessary for family reunification purposes, such as when one spouse is a German national. Important Clarification: Two married South Africans living in Germany do not need to register their marriage in Germany unless required for a specific legal purpose. However, it’s advisable to have an apostilled copy of your marriage certificate on hand for official matters. Always consult your local Rathaus or a legal advisor to ensure you have the most accurate and up-to-date information for your circumstances. German Civil Registry (Standesamt Submit Marriage Certificate: Obtain an international marriage certificate (in multiple languages, including German) from the relevant authorities. This will simplify the registration process in Germany. If you got married in South Africa Apostille Stamp: In some cases, the German authorities may require an apostille (an official certification) on the marriage certificate.  Translation: If you didn’t get an international certificate, you may need to have the marriage certificate officially translated into German by a certified translator.   Required Documents for Registration: $599.99 Marriage Certificate (with Apostille if required). Passports of both partners. Proof of Residence in Germany. Birth Certificates (sometimes requested). Procedure: Visit the Local Standesamt: Go to the civil registry office (Standesamt) in the area where you reside in Germany to register the marriage. Application for Registration: Fill out the necessary forms and submit your documents. Processing Time: The registration process can take a few weeks, depending on the workload at the Standesamt and whether all documents are in order.   Please share your experience with us We’d love to hear your story! If you’ve gotten married, whether in South Africa, Germany, Denmark, or elsewhere, and have gone through the process of registering your marriage in Germany, please share your experience with us via the link below. Your insights will help others on a similar journey, and we’ll feature your story on our website. Additional Considerations Name Change: If you change your last name after marriage, you’ll need to update your name on all official documents in Germany, such as your passport, residence permit, bank accounts, and insurance. Tax and Benefits: Your marriage will also affect your tax class in Germany. You may want to consult with a tax advisor to understand the implications and benefits. Info on the web If you want to get married in Germany, you can get info it on the Expatica site Agentur Heiraten leicht gemacht – a company that can assist with weddings in Denmark Documentation companies listed on our site Related content Facebook Twitter LinkedIn WhatsApp Email

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