Shared by Liezl on 15 May 2023
When did you apply for your FRV | Â 2022-09-29 |
How many days did you wait before it was approved | Â 184 |
Nationality of the person applying for a FRV | Â South African passport |
The nationality of your spouse whom you will be joining in Germany | Â Dual SA and DE |
Marital Status at the time of application | Â Married |
Children | Â No children involved |
Parent to a German Child | Â NA |
Type of Visa your spouse applied for in Germany | Â |
Did you need an Unabridged marriage certificate | Â Yes |
Did you need to have your marriage certificate apostilled | Â Yes |
Proof of language skills | Â A minimum of A1 level was required |
Are you allowed to work once you are in Germany | Â Yes |
Tips you would like to share |  Definitely study well for the A1 exam. It’s costly and can cost you time waiting for the next exam date. Appostile all your unabridged documents. I also translated them into German and have found that to be helpful once converting my drivers. Our application was delayed because the Ausländerbehörde was extremely busy in our small town. Also our 10 year marriage wasn’t registered in Germany and was mistaken for it happening in Germany and not in SA, causing confusion.. We got a family member who speaks German to communicate to the manager at the Ausländerbehörde who reluctantly helped. Delay could’ve been avoided if they bothered to reach out to us and ask. All in all be prepared to wait more than the stated 3 months. |
Shared by Chantell on 26 April 2023
When did you apply for your FRV | Â 2023-03-08 |
How many days did you wait before it was approved | Â 35 |
Nationality of the person applying for a FRV | Â South African passport |
The nationality of your spouse whom you will be joining in Germany | Â South African passport |
Marital Status at the time of application | Â Married |
Children | Â No children involved |
Parent to a German Child | Â NA |
Type of Visa your spouse applied for in Germany | Â Work Visa (not Bluecard) |
Did you need an Unabridged marriage certificate | Â Yes |
Did you need to have your marriage certificate apostilled | Â Yes |
Proof of language skills | Â A minimum of A1 level was required |
Are you allowed to work once you are in Germany | Â No |
Tips you would like to share | Â Start with German A1 as soon as you can as this can take time with finding a date for your test. This was the thing that hold us back the longest. I went through Goethe Institute in Johannesburg and they were great. I received the results of my test within a week but I had to wait for two months to write because of the date for tests they have available. Start with the Apostille of Unabridged Marriage Certificates 6 months prior if you can and Expedite through companies given on the site. It’s affordable for the time that they get the certificates back to you. Once you make your appointment make sure you have all your documents otherwise the process will be delayed. Good Luck! |
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Shared by Mariska in March 2023
When did you apply for your FRV | Â 2023-01-11 |
How many days did you wait before it was approved | Â 62 |
Nationality of the person applying for a FRV | Â South African passport |
The nationality of your spouse whom you will be joining in Germany | Â German passport |
Marital Status at the time of application | Â Married |
Children | Â No children involved |
Parent to a German Child | Â NA |
Type of Visa your spouse have for Germany | Â German passport holder |
Did you need an Unabridged marriage certificate | Â Yes |
Did you need to have your marriage certificate apostilled | Â Yes |
Proof of language skills | Â Language requirement was waived |
Are you allowed to work once you are in Germany | Â Yes |
Tips you would like to share |  The wait is emotionally and mentally draining. Being away from your spouse is not easy. Keep in mind – The Embassy sends your application to the authorities at the Ausländerbehörde in the area you’re emigrating to. If/when you follow up, make sure it’s to the correct Ausländerbehörde. My advice is to give it a few weeks before following up. Even though we never got feedback from the Ausländerbehörde, it’s worth a try. The Embassy can’t give you information regarding the process, but we still sent them emails and their response time was quite good. As difficult as it is, you’ve got to have patience and a little bit of faith. (; Good luck x |
Shared by Ryan in March 2023
When did you apply for your FRV | Â 2023-02-21 |
How many days did you wait before it was approved | Â 28 |
Nationality of the person applying for a FRV | Â South African passport |
The nationality of your spouse whom you will be joining in Germany | Â German passport |
Marital Status at the time of application | Â Engaged |
Children | Â No children involved |
Parent to a German Child | Â NA |
Type of Visa your spouse have for Germany | Â German passport holder |
Did you need an Unabridged marriage certificate | Â No |
Did you need to have your marriage certificate apostilled | Â No |
Proof of language skills | Â A minimum of A1 level was required |
Are you allowed to work once you are in Germany | Â Yes |
Tips you would like to share | Â It took 10 days to receive an email from the Aliens Office, and other couple weeks to hear back from the Consulate in Cape Town. I thing home affairs here also gets a bad rep and DIRCO for the apostille. I read so many horror stories but in reality, it was a breeze. On the German end, it may have taken quicker because we are registered to marry at a smaller quieter Rathaus in the country side. |
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Shared by Jemma in February 2023
When did you apply for your FRV | Â 2023-01-04 |
How many days did you wait before it was approved | Â 42 |
Nationality of the person applying for a FRV | Â South African passport |
The nationality of your spouse whom you will be joining in Germany | Â South African passport |
Marital Status at the time of application | Â Married |
Children | Â Our children have only South African passports |
Parent to a German Child | Â |
Type of Visa your spouse have for Germany | Â Work Visa (not Bluecard) |
Did you need an Unabridged marriage certificate | Â Yes |
Did you need to have your marriage certificate apostilled | Â Yes |
Proof of language skills | Â Language requirement was waived |
Are you allowed to work once you are in Germany | Â Yes |
Tips you would like to share |  The wait is hard and it takes multiple emails to the Ausländerbehörde to get an answer sometimes. My experience is if they have no update then they simply won’t respond. |
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Shared by Retha in December 2022
When did you apply for your FRV | Â 2022-11-11 |
How many days did you wait before it was approved | Â 38 |
Nationality of the person applying for a FRV | Â South African passport |
The nationality of your spouse whom you will be joining in Germany | Â Dual SA and DE |
Marital Status at the time of application | Â Married |
Children | Â No children involved |
Parent to a German Child | Â NA |
Type of Visa your spouse have for Germany | Â German passport holder |
Did you need an Unabridged marriage certificate | Â Yes |
Did you need to have your marriage certificate apostilled | Â Yes |
Proof of language skills | Â The language requirement was waived |
Are you allowed to work once you are in Germany | Â Yes |
Tips you would like to share |  After your appointment at the embassy, it takes the application 3-4 weeks to reach the ausländerbehörde in Germany. We started following up with them after 3 weeks had passed. The language certificate requirement was waived as I am colloquially fluent in German (B2ish level) so I had my entire visa interview in German at the embassy. I saw on international groups that the rule of thumb for approaching the language requirement this way is, you should be a letter grade higher than required. So if you need A1, you should speak at least B1 level German. |
Shared by Rosa in December 2022
When did you apply for your FRV | Â 2022-11-18 |
How many days did you wait before it was approved | Â 14 |
Nationality of the person applying for a FRV | Â South African passport |
The nationality of your spouse whom you will be joining in Germany | Â EU passport (not German) |
Marital Status at the time of application | Â In a relationship |
Children | Â Our children have only South African passports |
Parent to a German Child | Â NA |
Type of Visa your spouse have for Germany | Â Work Visa (not Bluecard) |
Did you need an Unabridged marriage certificate | Â No |
Did you need to have your marriage certificate apostilled | Â Yes |
Proof of language skills | Â The language requirement was waived |
Are you allowed to work once you are in Germany | Â Yes |
Tips you would like to share | Â |
Shared by Chrisni in November 2022
When did you apply for your FRV | Â 2022-08-10 |
How many days did you wait before it was approved | Â 104 |
Nationality of the person applying for a FRV | Â South African passport |
The nationality of your spouse whom you will be joining in Germany | Â Dual SA and DE |
Marital Status at the time of application | Â Married |
Children | Â I am a parent to a German child (see next question) |
Parent to a German Child | Â I am a parent to a German child and applied for the “parent to a minor German child” visa – as it is less restrictive and easier to obtain |
Type of Visa your spouse have for Germany | Â German passport holder |
Did you need an Unabridged marriage certificate | Â Yes |
Did you need to have your marriage certificate apostilled | Â Yes |
Proof of language skills | Â Language requirement was waived |
Are you allowed to work once you are in Germany | Â Yes |
Tips you would like to share |  It’s worth finding out which municipality your place of residence is in, and emailing the Ausländbehorde there if things seem to take a while. I would likely still be waiting for my visa if I didn’t mail them, as my application fell through the cracks due to a staff change. |
Shared by Magdelie in November 2022
When did you apply for your FRV | Â 2022-02-16 |
How many days did you wait before it was approved | Â 180 |
Nationality of the person applying for a FRV | Â South African passport |
The nationality of your spouse whom you will be joining in Germany | Â South African passport |
Marital Status at the time of application | Â Married |
Children | Â No children involved |
Parent to a German Child | Â NA |
Type of Visa your spouse has for Germany | Â Work Visa (not Bluecard) |
Did you need an Unabridged marriage certificate | Â Yes |
Did you need to have your marriage certificate apostilled | Â Yes |
Proof of language skills | Â A minimum of A1 level was required |
Are you allowed to work once you are in Germany | Â Yes |
Tips you would like to share |  As a lot of people moving to Germany can attest, permanent housing is not always very quickly found. In the event that you are moving to a smaller town, ensure that there are not multiple Auslanderbehörde for different regions of the town. This is what caused the delay for my visa, since my husband’s different AirBnB’s fell under 2 different ABH despite the fact that the 2 areas were part of the main city. This resulted in my application being ping-ponged between 2 ABH and the Embassy in SA, which delayed the entire process to a total of 6 months. |
Shared by Eric on 03 October 2022
When did you apply for your FRV | Â 2022-08-03 |
How many days did you wait before it was approved | 54 |
Nationality of the person applying for a FRV | Â South African passport |
The nationality of your spouse whom you will be joining in Germany | Â South African passport |
Marital Status at the time of application | Â Married |
Children | Â I am a parent to a German child (see next question) |
Parent to a German Child | Â I am a parent to a German child and applied for the “parent to a minor German child” visa – as it is less restrictive and easier to obtain |
Type of Visa your spouse have for Germany | Â German passport holder |
Did you need an Unabridged marriage certificate | Â Yes |
Did you need to have your marriage certificate apostilled | Â Yes |
Proof of language skills | Â Language requirement was waived |
Are you allowed to work once you are in Germany | Â Yes |
Tips you would like to share | Â To start, if your child does not yet have a German passport and you are considering emigrating in future, get it done ASAP. It took us 5 months to get the name declaration done and another 6 weeks for the passport. This lead to me applying for the visa later than expected and we got seperated. They did accept just the name declaration at the appointment as proof of German citizenship, but when it ended up in Germany a few weeks later they required copy of passport as well as our marriage certificate for some reason even though it was reunification to child. In both cases, the ND & Passport application as well as for the visa, had family following up on the German side. At time of application my wife and daughter were still in SA so I put my father-in-law as my sponsor with their address as that’s where we’d be staying while we get things in order. |
When did you apply for your FRV | Â 2022-05-11 |
How many days did you wait before it was approved | 43 |
Nationality of the person applying for a FRV | Â South African passport |
The nationality of your spouse whom you will be joining in Germany | Â German passport |
Marital Status at the time of application | Â Married |
Children | Â No children involved |
Parent to a German Child | Â NA |
Type of Visa your spouse have for Germany | Â German passport holder |
Did you need to have your marriage certificate apostilled | Â Yes |
Proof of language skills | Â A minimum of A1 level was required |
Are you allowed to work once you are in Germany | Â Yes |
Tips you would like to share | 1. Apply to a smaller district if possible. I was told that in the bigger cities, these applications can take many months! 2. After a month or so (they send your application to Germany in hardcopy, so give it time to arrive) try to find the person that is responsible for your application at your local municipality and call and email them frequently (in German helps – I got my wife and mother-in-law to phone). It looks like once they become aware of the application they process it quite quickly. |
Shared by Tasneem 29 July 2022
When did you apply for your FRV | 2021-09-14 |
How many days did you wait before it was approved | 36 |
Nationality of the person applying for a FRV | South African passport |
The nationality of your spouse whom you will be joining in Germany | Dual SA and DE |
Marital Status at the time of application | Married |
Children | I am a parent to a German child (see next question) |
Parent to a German Child | I am a parent to a German child and applied for the “parent to a minor German child” visa – as it is less restrictive and easier to obtain |
Type of Visa your spouse have for Germany | German passport holder |
Did you need to have your marriage certificate apostilled | Yes |
Proof of language skills | Language requirement was waived |
Are you allowed to work once you are in Germany | Yes |
When did you apply for your FRV | Â 2019-01-07 |
How many days did you wait before it was approved | 14 |
Nationality of the person applying for a FRV | Â South African passport |
The nationality of your spouse whom you will be joining in Germany | Â Dual SA and DE |
Marital Status at the time of application | Â Married |
Children | I am a parent to a German child (see next question) |
Parent to a German Child | Â I am a parent to a German child but applied for a spousal visa |
Type of Visa your spouse have for Germany | Â German passport holder |
Did you need to have your marriage certificate apostilled | Â No |
Proof of language skills | Â Language requirement was waived |
Are you allowed to work once you are in Germany | Â Yes |
Tips you would like to share |  All certificates (marriage and birth) had to be unabridged but not apostilled. As I have a German child (dual SA, DE citizenship), the A1 language requirement was waived however I still did the Goethe A1 test and used it in my application. For proof of medical insurance, I obtained 3 months travel insurance and then went on a krankenkasse the first week in Germany. Book your appointment at the Auslanderbehörde as soon as possible once arriving in Germany and try to take someone fluent in German with you. You may have to do a mandatory integration course, it is hard to do as it is 3-4 hours daily for about a year, but it helps you integrate and gets you to B1. |
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